relationships
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Performative Emotional Distance
Performative emotional distance was a concept I first learned about a few days ago. I was aware of the idea, but I couldn’t explain it in a way that made sense. What exactly is performative emotional distance, though? The best way I can explain it is that you hold back your emotions, actions, words, and… Continue reading
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Love is an action
Love is an action. A verb, doing things and showing up. Has your love been active or passive? Continue reading
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Valentine’s Day commandments
Sometimes I am amazed by my audacity. Why do I think I can write Valentine’s Day commandments? Well, I think we can all agree that these commandments are valid. I cannot feel the Valentine’s fever in the air this year, I am sure I’m not the only one feeling this way. Anyways, happy Valentine’s Day… Continue reading
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Should you be friend’s with an ex?
I saw a thread on Twitter about this topic yesterday and people were just were just angry and petty. I think this friends with ex’s topic is a common topic everyone talks about. People always ask should you remain friends with an ex and my reply is usually along these lines; you don’t have to… Continue reading
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Dating; London vs Lagos
London and Lagos are undeniably two great cities. These cities are rich in culture, although very different, share some similarities like being very populous, industrious in nature, expensive. It is common for people to migrate to these cities with hopes of attaining “greener pastures” unfortunately, nobody can explain the hustling involved thoroughly till you experience… Continue reading
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